i find that those cheesy romantic movies, dr phil, men vs women debates aren't solving relationship problems. for some, yes they do help in putting me into perspectives or help me realize the wrong things i do. but thing is, i am the one in that system, and i am the one making the decision. hence, i choose to follow my heart, in which it comes with full (or at least some) senses and of course praying that it is guided by Allah s.w.t.

well, i leave everything to Allah cause He's watching over me, every minute, every breath, every second. He knows me more than anyone, not even myself.

when i read the love and relationship problems in forum (don't blame me. i'm in my idle mood hihihi), i find that, for some, they lack in trust in Allah. not that they don't trust Him but it's just not fully tawakkal'alallah. i was like them too. back then i mean. and the things they asked, i mean, for me you can work it out yourself. having a third point of view is good but not to depend on it. we, the readers, do not know your relationship as much as you do. and we are not in your shoes, hence, it's you yourself who is going to evaluate it.

so please, learn to leave it to Allah. this might be the way God is calling for you.